Quote: That's not intended to be a personal slight, just an observation
Pretty much everything you said was a personal slight, whether you intended it or not. Which is especially disconcerting because you just repeated everything I already said about myself, and then mixed it with wild speculation and assumptions based on pretty much nothing.
I've never met a bunch of folk who took things so literally. Even after I explain myself, about four times, in four different ways, you're STILL pulling out semantic nit-picks, focussing on the specific words I'm using and steadfastly ignoring the actual INTENTION behind what I'm saying. I mean, why? You're all waxing Dr. Phil, trying to give me a "reality check" that I have repeatedly stated is completely unnecessary. Telling me things I already know is a waste of both of our time. The only reason I mentioned myself or my "dream" at all was just to give a little flavour and grounding to my actual questions. Which may have been silly, but really all I needed was to be told specifically why (which has been mostly answered, from the bits and pieces in this thread that were actually on-topic, so thanks for that)
I was trying especially hard to be humble, freely admitting all my shortcomings, because I knew people would get their egos in a twist if I was to suggest that breaking into the industry was in any way easy (which I wasn't). But people still started making personal slights against me, from the beginning. And I tried to say "don't worry about me, let's just use our imaginations for a second", but the whole thread just degenerated into me trying to defend myself against a clusterfuck of people who are so stubbornly cynical they can't get past the idea of someone having a dream that falls outside their 'actuarial estimates of success', and other people who don't seem to understand hyperbole, even after I explicitly state what I mean.
Sorry to rant, but if there's one thing I can't stand, it's people who take every possible opportunity to remind everyone around them how intelligent and knowledgeable they are, especially when it's to such a degree that they just make up reasons to show off their incredible psychoanalytical insights and ability to logically refute or morally condemn out-of-context statements. I mean, I don't mind a bit of it here and there - everybody does it - or if it's y'know, actually appropriate to the topic at hand. But when people kindly tell you to stop, several times, and you continue to do it? Fucking annoying.
NO OFFENCE INTENDED!!! Just making some observations. But you might consider working on those areas. As much as I LOVE unwanted, unsolicited, completely baseless and irrelevant advice on how to live my life, stated in the snottiest, most self-important tone possible ("attitude issues", haha, that honestly made me laugh out loud so hard), other people may not appreciate it as much. It could cause a lot of friction in future. Just some friendly advice.